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4 stages of happiness

August 19, 2012

Pg 108 From the Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

Happiness, like grief, has 4 stages. To eke out the most happiness from an experience, we must anticipate it, savor it as it unfolds, express happiness, and recall a happy memory.

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